Five ways families can support belonging and inclusion

Children need to feel that their world is a safe place

Children need to know they’re cared for, that their needs are met, and that they can get help when they need it.

When children have these things they develop strong feelings of belonging and inclusion, which improves their mental health and wellbeing.

Benefits of belonging

Children who feel a sense of belonging and connectedness at their preschool, kindergarten, day care or school will be happy, more relaxed and have fewer behaviour problems than others.

They are also more motivated and successful learners.

There are benefits when parents and carers feel a sense of belonging and connectedness too.

It’s important to feel included

When children feel included, they are more likely to be accepting of others and sensitive to their needs, and they feel safer and more secure.

The best learning happens when children see the adults around them putting values like care, compassion, respect, understanding and inclusion into practice.

An inclusive service is one that understands, respects, welcomes, celebrates and honours the diversity of children, families and staff.

In an inclusive community, every face has a place, every voice is valued and everyone has something to contribute

Inclusive services provide rich and positive experiences for young children, which stay with them for life.

Positive relationships are essential for mental health and wellbeing

Positive relationships are warm, caring, consistent, predictable, and open to the other person’s needs.

When children experience positive relationships they learn how to use these skills in their own relationships with others.

In an early childhood service everyone plays an important role in developing positive relationships.

The best way for early childhood services and families to support children’s mental health is by working together.

Five ways services can encourage belonging and inclusion

  1. Make the surroundings welcoming for all children and families
    Think about how your service looks and whether it reflects the culture and interests of the children and families that attend. Take time to develop positive relationships. Be aware of different needs and cater for them wherever possible.
  2. Support children’s social and emotional skills

Create fun opportunities for social interactions and social play between children that promote respect and empathy. Encourage staff to join in, as modelling social skills helps children learn about them.

  1. Implement safety, wellbeing and behaviour policies
    Develop policies in collaboration with families. Involve families, children and staff in decisions that affect them.
  2. Help families connect
    Provide activities for families to connect with the service and each other. One idea is to set up a ‘buddy system’ to provide support to new families. Supply information about support available in the local community.
  3. Communicate clearly and regularly

Provide information in appropriate languages and in ways that cater to individual needs. Share ideas, resources and experiences with other staff members.

Five ways families can support belonging and inclusion

  1. Find out about your service and what your child does there

Talk regularly with staff and ask questions about your child’s day.

  1. Support your child’s social and emotional skills
    Create opportunities for your child to participate in fun experiences with other children, and support them to include and appreciate others. Give your child encouragement that is specific and values effort over success.
  2. Talk about your child’s individual needs

Share ideas and information that could help staff plan appropriately for your child. Let staff know if your child is having difficulties.

  1. Be informed and get involved

Check for notices that are sent home and keep informed about activities. Don’t be afraid to ask if you don’t understand something. Find out if there are ways you can take part at your service, and attend information sessions and social activities.

  1. Get to know other families

Talk with other families at the service. Look out for new families and help them to feel welcome.

KidsMatter Early Childhood has a wide range of information sheets about children’s mental health and wellbeing for families and early childhood education and care staff. Links to some information sheets have been included in this blog post. See the full list of information sheets.

This article was first published on KidsMatter Early Childhood’s blog, Shared Thinking.

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